Nikki Glaser is getting candid about her sexual preferences, revealing she’s perfectly fine with her boyfriend hooking up with other women.
For over a decade, Glaser has been in an on-and-off relationship with Chris Convy, a producer she met while working on her first MTV show in 2013.
The pair has always had an unconventional romance, with Glaser openly discussing their unique dynamic.
In 2022, she admitted to Graham Bensinger that one of her 'kinky things' was that she 'wouldn’t mind' if Convy slept with another woman, as long as it wasn't emotionally charged or romantic.
Fast forward to Wednesday, and Glaser appeared on the Call Her Daddy podcast, confirming that her views on non-monogamy haven’t shifted.
'In a relationship, I don't really care if my boyfriend were to hook up,' she shared.
Nikki Glaser is getting candid about her sexual preferences, revealing she’s perfectly fine with her boyfriend hooking up with other women
For over a decade, Glaser has been in an on-and-off relationship with Chris Convy, a producer she met while working on her first MTV show in 2013; (Glaser and Convy in 2024)
'But that is not a two-way street. I'm not someone who likes to hook up when I'm in a relationship. I don't really care about that. But I don't care if someone else were to. In fact, I kind of like it.'
For Glaser, hearing about Convy's previous experiences only fueled her attraction.
'It would make me horny to think about him doing that with other girls,' she said. 'So, I’d ask about all of his girlfriends or anyone he had hooked up with, all the details about it, and it would really be like foreplay for me. I would get revved up talking about it.'
Glaser's reasoning behind being drawn to this dynamic is simple: she wants to feel desired. 'I want a guy that other girls want,' she said plainly.
But Glaser is also clear about the rules of engagement. 'Just don’t kiss her, but see if you could,' she recalled advising Convy, explaining that it was important for him to confirm his relationship status with any potential partners.
'But don’t make her feel bad about it. I was very careful to always let the girl know you have a girlfriend and she’s choosing this. Let her know that I’m OK with it.'
That said, she does draw the line when it comes to emotional connections.
'If a guy has a sexual connection with a girl and he was to use protection and just have sex for a night, I literally wouldn’t care if my husband did that,' Glaser shared.
'In a relationship, I don't really care if my boyfriend were to hook up,' she shared; (Glaser with Convy in March 2025)
'I don’t know why, but If he were to watch The Wire with her or do crosswords puzzles, or send memes and stuff, I’d be like, ‘What the f--k are you doing? That’s our thing.’ Emotional cheating would hurt me.'
Glaser summed up their arrangement by saying, 'It’s just what I’m into.'
She reiterated this sentiment in the 2022 interview with Bensinger, adding, 'Everyone has their own kinky thing. My thing is, I don’t mind that.'
However, while Glaser is comfortable with Convy exploring sexual connections with other women, she has no desire to pursue similar experiences herself.
'It’s not [my] thing,' she said at the time, though she admitted it 'might be my thing someday.'
Then on a 2025 GOOP podcast with Gwyneth Paltrow, Glaser further clarified that while she’s not personally non-monogamous, she’s fine with Convy exploring those dynamics.
'I wouldn’t mind if [my] boyfriend were to fool around with other people,' she said.
Glaser shared that, in the past, Convy has had a few encounters with other women, but she’s perfectly okay with it as long as the other woman understands that it's purely physical.
'But that is not a two-way street. I'm not someone who likes to hook up when I'm in a relationship. I don't really care about that. But I don't care if someone else were to. In fact, I kind of like it,' (pictured January 2025)
'I think girls sometimes can be convinced that, "He’s gonna leave her for me," it’s like, that’s not gonna happen, so just know what this is,' she told Paltrow.
She later clarified to Paltrow that the thought of Convy being with other women is, without a doubt, a 'sexual fetish' for her.
'It’s a fetish. I’ve looked into it, it’s called Hot Husband.'
Glaser shared that while she's not interested in joining her partner or hooking up with anyone else, she gets a real thrill from hearing about his experiences, making it a fun part of their foreplay.
'For every person I’ve ever been with, it has always been a part of foreplay for me to hear about other women - almost the courtship process. I like the ‘will they/won’t they’... I’m really horny for that.'
Glaser then told Paltrow about her hesitation to talk about non-monogamy, explaining that she worries people might think she's just pretending to be okay with her boyfriend sleeping around.
'I wish I didn’t feel this way because it seems like I’m being that kind of girl,' she admitted. 'But I don’t do anything that would cause me pain.'
She then went on to say, 'I’m just confident in who I am. I’m a pretty good person to date. I don’t want anything from him, I just want him to shower after and then tell me all about it. '
She concluded, 'I just don’t have jealousy over him getting close to other women.'
